Tuesday, September 27, 2011
My Journey
Welcome to my blog. It's a first for me, one of many to come I'm sure. If you read my profile blurb you already know that I am a 33 y/o woman who is pretty traditional in most things, especially the bedroom. My gorgeous 24 y/o husband, however, is not. He is an age player, avid fetishist and has an insatiable curiosity. He is also my best friend, dearest lover and the cause of ninety percent of my gray hair. After several tremendously crazy years we have decided to venture forth into the wide world of kink together. He, diving in headlong and full of enthusiasm. Me, stumbling in wide eyed and naive. And this, is my log of it all. I don't know if I'm writing this for others to learn from or for me to look back on someday. Either way, I'm about to step into a brand new world. Where will I end up? How will I get there? Beats me and frankly, I don't much care. The only thing that matters to me is that when I reach the end of my road that the person holding my hand is my husband. So, whether you're a kinkster extraordinaire or as vanilla as ice cream, I welcome you to join me on this amazing journey.
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The definition of vinilla vs kink is purely semantics. Simple put in my opinion we are all kinky. The difference is what we are comfortable with. Some like crazy getting whacked with tenis rackets many do not. The point is that this is a journey you need to take at your pace. And don't fall into the trap of needing to label and classify. Kink is an umbrella term used to describe anything other then missionary position. And most of all COMMUNICATE even if it hurts like hell. It will save you. Have fun and I know no matter how "vanilla" you think you are you have some kinky side in you. Cheers.
ReplyDeleteI forgot you should so listen to the big little podcast and read grew wolf's understanding infantilism.
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http://understanding.infantilism.org/
Find a littles munch near you: http://www.littlesmunch.com/content/
And there are many resources for kink and vanilla on fetlife.com (Just ignore the images)
Thanks Sukima. Your comments are appreciated! I already listen to the podcast and have even been on it once (although I was a sad guest! Lol). Understanding infantilism site is fabulous. I've read it before and appreciated the info there. Kink Academy is also a really great reference for me at least. Thank you again!
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